Comments on: Sleeping with the friend. http://ztoastedmarshmallow.wordpress.com/2008/10/19/sleeping-with-the-friend/ Fri, 08 May 2009 20:01:08 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Gina http://ztoastedmarshmallow.wordpress.com/2008/10/19/sleeping-with-the-friend/#comment-4 Gina Sun, 19 Oct 2008 17:33:07 +0000 http://ztoastedmarshmallow.wordpress.com/?p=10#comment-4 Yeah I agree with Liz. You (and I'm using "you" as a worldly term, not like, YOU, EMILY) need to be open about it, I think it's important to tell people who you've been dating that you're sleeping with someone else because you don't really know how that other person feels. Like, if you haven't talked to him then you might THINK he feels one way and he, in fact, may feel a much different way. So I think it's important to kind of tell people what's up. But, as far as your whore comment, I wouldn't think someone was a whore (or man-whore) for sleeping with those people if they're just dating someone. I would however, want to know if the guy I was seeing on some dates was sleeping with someone else, just because I would kinda wanna know whether I should start something with him or not. Also if he has the hiv. ;) Yeah I agree with Liz. You (and I’m using “you” as a worldly term, not like, YOU, EMILY) need to be open about it, I think it’s important to tell people who you’ve been dating that you’re sleeping with someone else because you don’t really know how that other person feels. Like, if you haven’t talked to him then you might THINK he feels one way and he, in fact, may feel a much different way. So I think it’s important to kind of tell people what’s up.

But, as far as your whore comment, I wouldn’t think someone was a whore (or man-whore) for sleeping with those people if they’re just dating someone. I would however, want to know if the guy I was seeing on some dates was sleeping with someone else, just because I would kinda wanna know whether I should start something with him or not. Also if he has the hiv. ;)

]]> By: veganliz http://ztoastedmarshmallow.wordpress.com/2008/10/19/sleeping-with-the-friend/#comment-3 veganliz Sun, 19 Oct 2008 02:14:00 +0000 http://ztoastedmarshmallow.wordpress.com/?p=10#comment-3 They both sound a-okay to me. I think the most important thing is just to be up front about stuff, especially if the other party(ies) ask or hint about other partners. If people are comfortable enough to put their faces/parts in eachother's faces/parts, they're usually comfortable enough to ask/tell each other stuff. :) They both sound a-okay to me. I think the most important thing is just to be up front about stuff, especially if the other party(ies) ask or hint about other partners.

If people are comfortable enough to put their faces/parts in eachother’s faces/parts, they’re usually comfortable enough to ask/tell each other stuff. :)

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