Eyes Wide Open
October 20, 2008
Okay so how do we feel about kissing with eyes open? IMO: It definately takes away from the intimacy. And it’s totally creepy if both parties have their eyes open… it’s just freaky. And it’s awkward to just happen to open your eyes mid-kiss or between kisses and see your partner staring at you. Obviously I’m the type to kiss with my eyes closed… if the kiss means anything to me. Wait, even if it doesn’t I kiss with my eyes closed.
Okay, okay so I have kissed with my eyes open before…BUT i definately don’t do it when I’m trying to build up the passion to get laid…I’ve kissed with my eyes open when it’s humorous to do so, like when a guy tries to kiss you at a party and people are watching… it’s funny to talk to other people with your eyes while this guy tries to impart (did i use that word properly?) a token of affection upon me, or when watching a movie and he decides to lean in but I’m not quite ready to miss this scene. But all in all kisses should have eyes closed. Anyone out there an open-eyed kisser?
No!
Sometimes Caleb kisses me with his eyes open and it FREAKS me the hell out!
I’m glad you concur! It’s just wrong! and awkward! Have you talked to him about this? If so what were his reasonings?
well, sort of we talked, but, he said that it was his natural reaction to leave his eyes open when kissing, not natural to close them! what the hell?? maybe it’s something evolutionary or something…guys need to keep their eyes open even with a hot chick because there might be a giant mastodon elephant coming and they need to be ready to spear it.
Jeez guys, I think you’re missing out. I think open-eyed kissing can be quite nice. (Well, as long as his eyes aren’t like WIDE UNBLINKING open. THAT would be creepy.) But like, half-closed, ooh yeah.
hmmm, wait, i could maybe see the half open thing. or maybe not even half open but like, just peeking, just so you can see his mouth and cheeks. That’s wicked cute. good point Liz.
okay but I was talking about WIDE OPEN, UNBLINKING like STARING… serial killer kinda eyes…. i’ve never had a half open eyed kiss…. i’ll have to try that…